Monday, July 28, 2008

It Smells Bad In Here

I'm 8 weeks and 1 day pregnant now. This past week brought on two new symptoms: a sensitive nose and hypoglycemia.

I'm smelling all kinds of things now. Things I've never smelled or noticed before. I've even gotten a start on a list of offending smells. They include dry beans cooking on the stove, milk, my fridge, my microwave, and perfectly good potatoes (raw, not yet peeled or cut). The beans make me nauseous the whole day while they cook. The microwave is overpowering. And it took me a while to figure out, "What IS that smell?!" which turned out to be my 10lb bag of potatoes in the cupboard. Strange!

The hypoglycemia is expected but early. During a previous pregnancy, my gestational diabetes test revealed that my blood sugar, two hours after consuming a well-balanced meal, had dropped to 70, which is very low for pregnancy. Considering I normally ate every 3-4 hours, you can see that I was dropping into the hypoglycemia levels (below 60). My midwife and I discussed my diet again, which led to me controlling my blood sugar by eating every 1 1/2 to 2 hours, eating overnight, and ensuring I had protein at each "meal". Now, I'm seeing similar problems already with this one (I get nauseous and lightheaded about 2 hours after each meal and feel better after eating) so I am working on retraining myself to eat every 2 hours.

Some people might like having to eat that often but I can tell you that I most certainly do not. I dislike having to force down food when I'm not even hungry. After a while, just the thought of food becomes unwelcomed. I handle my nighttime eating requirement by either having a high protein shake on my way to bed or eating something when I wake up to pee. Protein is very necessary part of my day as well so I must always have something on hand. I keep cheese sticks, cheddar cheese, meat, peanut butter, hard boiled eggs, protein bars, and protein powder on hand at home. I also obtain a doctor's note for my midwife that allows me to bring my own food into places where outside food is not allowed (ie. movie theaters) since I can't go that long without it. In truth, I should probably also carry fast-acting glucose of some sort like diabetic do. It's an awful lot of attention to food when you put it altogether. It feels like food takes center stage and everything else gets pushed aside.

It also feels weird to have to tell my kids that they can wait until dinner to eat while I'm sitting there eating in front of them. However, I must remember that them eating an hour before dinner will ruin their appetite where I have no choice if I'm experiencing symptoms. I must eat RIGHT THIS MINUTE if I have symptoms even if I'm in the midst of cooking a meal. I feel like I'm being rude eating in front of them, but I'm really not. I'm just keeping myself from puking and/or passing out. Fortunately, the latter hasn't happened but I should probably tell them what to do if that ever happens.

So, there's an update. I thought I'd throw in a weekly update into my blog routine and possibly discuss some pregnancy things I've learned over the years. I hope you all don't mind.

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Tacoma Kids Weekly - Week of July 28, 2008


Here's what I have this week.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Bochinche will be performing at Pioneer Park in Puyallup at noon today. They are a latin music group. Their website includes some music clips if you would like a sample of what they offer. After enjoying the show, you can stick around to enjoy the park's other amenities: the playground, the wading pool, and a nice grassy area.

Regal Cinemas will be providing another round of free G and PG movies this week. Movies are shown Tuesday and Wednesday, are first come first serve, and begin at 10am. We went to our first free movie of this year last week and found a line already formed by 9:10am so be sure to get there early to ensure you get a seat. Our favorite local theater, Lakewood 15 on S. 84th, is showing Charlotte's Web and Waterhorse this week. To check out what will be playing at your local theater, go to the Regal Cinemas website.

Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Regal Cinemas will show another round of this week's free family films. See Tuesday for details.

There will be another Nature Discovery Night. This one is at Jefferson Park from 4:30 to 6:30pm. The theme is frogs, frogs, and more frogs. Learn about them and do frog based activities.

Thursday, July 31, 2008
The Tacoma Farmer's Market takes place today from 9am to 2pm downtown on Broadway between S. 9th and S. 11th streets. Musical entertainment will be provided by SOTA (School of the Arts?). The Children's Museum is free during the market as well so drop in with the kids and let them play for a while.

The Wild Worker Bugs presentation will be taking place again; this time it will be at Fern Hill Library at 3pm.

Visit Pioneer Park from 6:30 to 8:30pm for a free concert in the park. Tonight's entertainment will be provided by Spazmatics, an 80's band, and Magic Bus, playing classic Rock. There are limited concessions available at the park as well.

Friday, August 1, 2008
First Fridays are always free days at the Children's Museum of Tacoma. Stop on by anytime during regular business hours.

Wild Work Bugs will be featured at the Swasey Library at 3pm.

Stewart Heights Pool is having a family night from 5:30pm to 7:30pm. This pool includes a zero depth entry, water slide, bubble pool, lazy river, a water play structure, and tumble buckets. Cost for this event is $5 for adults, $4 for kids, or $12 per family.

Saturday, August 2, 2008
The first Saturday of the month means it is time to stop by any Home Depot between 9am and noon with the kids for their kids woodworking program. This month's kit is a flag holder.

Funny magician Jeff Evans will be performing at the Moore Library at 11am. If you and your kids haven't seen him yet, you'll love him. He's great at adding plenty of humor that the kids will enjoy immensely. He infuses his shows with plenty of references to books and characters they are sure to know as well.

The Center at Norpoint will be the location for Tacoma's summer concert and movie in the park this week. Musical entertainment will be provided by Maia Santell and House Blend. Casablanca will be the movie and will start at dusk. These concerts and movies in the park can really be a lot of fun for the kids. If it is at all chilly, bring some extra layers and blankets to cuddle up in.

Meanwhile, Puyallup will be showing its movie in the park at Bradley Lake. They will be showing Surf's Up. Based on last year's experience, I strongly suggest you take along a flashlight and chairs to sit on. The flashlight is for the bathrooms; they didn't have lights and were pitch black once you closed the door. I don't know if they've remedied this problem since last year but it won't hurt to be prepared. The chairs would replace a blanket as geese have been a problem in this park in the past.



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Friday, July 25, 2008

Blogging is Hard...

...when you aren't feeling well.

I've been beyond exhausted. I feel like anything less than about 14 hours of sleep is not enough but getting that much is NOT possible when you have an active toddler who wakes up at 6am and proceeds to trash the house immediately upon waking. Haha. I'm being smart, I guess, and napping with him during his morning nap. The only problem with that is that I'm waking up from the nap feeling more tired and more yucky than before the nap. What's up with that?

My anti-nausea is keeping me from throwing up all day long. But I'm still getting a big nauseous before each meal. It seems that my body knows my blood sugar is getting low about an hour before I get hungry. It's something that drives me nuts about being pregnant...I get to spent about 9 months eating all day even though I'm not hungry. It makes you hate food. Any food.

Speaking of hating food. You'll never guess what my current food adversion is...my favorite foods. I have a raging sweet tooth and right now I can't stand the thought of eating anything sweet. Normally, we eat dessert nearly every night. We've only had dessert 3 times in the last four weeks. Why? Because I can't stand the thought of it. And, you know what stinks about that? I've gained weight already anyway! I'm eating less at meals. I'm not eating tons of junk food and sweets. There's probably a few thousand calorie difference there and I'm still gaining. Hopefully, it will slow down before I've gained, like, a zillion pounds.

So, that's why I haven't stuck to my usual posting schedule. I just don't feel all that well and the thought of sitting upright and typing, especially when there isn't all that much going on right now to type about...well, I'm sure you understand.

Supposedly, we are starting school in a little over a week. We'll see how that goes.

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Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Am I Losing My Mind Yet?

Heard in my home recently...

I want to live in South Korea.




Joshua, close the refrigerator door please.
No, close it.
No, you can't have any eggs.
I said close it.
Joshua, close it.
Stop.
Out! Now!
Go!





(Sammy singing frantic at high volume) We are the pirates who don't do anything....
(Sammy still singing frantically) We are the pirates who don't do anything....
(Me) Sammy, have you lost your mind?
(Sammy) Yes, upstairs in my room.
(Me) Maybe you should go find it.
(Sammy) Ok.
Sammy walks upstairs and comes down a couple minutes later.
(Me) Did you find it?
(Sammy) Yes.
(Me, noting the absense of frantic, high volume singing) Oh, good.




I want to live in Tokyo.




Crack!
(It's a sickening sound really. Josh had opened the refrigerator, opened the egg carton, and got out an egg without anyone noticing. He then carried the egg to the living room and slammed it down on the corner of the coffee table.)




I want to live in Alaska. What?! It's very beautiful in Alaska.




(Sammy) How about Alexandria Melissa?
(Everyone else) No.
(Mika) How about Alexandra?
(Everyone else) No.
(Mika) Jessica?
(Everyone else) No.
(Me, reading off the random baby namer) Beruria Keila? Maysa Holliday?Majorca Alysia?
(Everyone else) NO! NO! NO!
(Me) How about Allison?
Note: Naming a baby when you have two people who don't have the same tastes in names is not easy. Adding in two opinionated children and it becomes impossible.




I want to live in Paris because of the Eiffel Tower. Now don't ask me anymore questions.




(Josh, pointing at the apples) Nana. Nana.




(Josh, trying to open the new locked refrigerator) Shriek!


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Monday, July 21, 2008

Tacoma Kids Weekly: Week of July 21, 2008


I tried to log on and get this done over the weekend. I did. Really. I just couldn't manage it. My husband was gone for a family emergency and I was home along with three kids while dealing with fatigue and nausea. Plus, I had/have a gazillion things to do. It isn't a good combination. I could barely manage to log on to see if there were any urgent emails to deal with, let alone post. So, I'm finally online. Here's what I have this week.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Breaking Point Dance will be performing at Pioneer Park in Puyallup at noon today. After enjoying this hip hop dance group, you can stick around to enjoy the park's other amenities: the playground, the wading pool, and a nice grassy area.

Regal Cinemas will be providing another round of free G and PG movies this week. Movies are shown Tuesday and Wednesday, are first come first serve, and begin at 10am. We went to our first free movie of this year last week and found a line already formed by 9:10am so be sure to get there early to ensure you get a seat. Our favorite local theater, Lakewood 15 on S. 84th, will be showing Mr. Bean's Vacation and Nancy Drew this week. To check out what will be playing at your local theater, go to the Regal Cinemas website.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Regal Cinemas will show another round of this week's free family films. See Tuesday for details.

The Valentine's Performing Pigs will be performing at the Tacoma Main Library at 3pm. These wonder pigs have been featured on numerous TV shows including the Late Show and Oprah. Check them out.

The Clay Martin Puppet theater will be doing a show at South Tacoma Library at 3pm. This is the last Tacoma library system show for the summer so if you really want to catch them, today is the day.

There will be another Nature Discovery Night. This one is at South Park from 4:30 to 6:30pm. The theme is frogs, frogs, and more frogs. Learn about them and do frog based activities.

Bradley Lake Park will be the location for a free country concert by Big Time Trouble. The concert starts at 6:30pm. Bradley Lake Park also features a nice playground, room to run, and a fishing lake. Based on my experience last year, I suggest taking lawn chairs instead of a blanket for sitting on the grass due to geese droppings on the grass.

Thursday, July 24, 2008
The Tacoma Farmer's Market takes place today from 9am to 2pm downtown on Broadway between S. 9th and S. 11th streets. Musical entertainment will be provided by SOTA (School of the Arts?). The Children's Museum is free during the market as well so drop in with the kids and let them play for a while.

Visit Pioneer Park from 6:30 to 8:30pm for a free concert in the park. Tonight's entertainment will be provided by Dead Edsels (music from the 1950's and 1960's) and Danny Vernon (Elvis impersonator). There are limited concessions available at the park as well.

Friday, July 25, 2008
Fort Nisqually in Pt. Defiance Park is having a Family Fun Night from 6pm to 9pm. Bring a picnic supper and step back in time with games, music, and dancing from the mid-1800's. There will be firings of the candy cannon and lemonade and ice cream will be available while supplies last. There is a small cost involved of $4 per adult, $3 per teen, and $2 per child aged 5-12 or $12 per family.

Nancy Stewart will be visiting the Motett Library at 11am. Bring the kids for a fun concert just for them and pick up some more books for the summer reading program.

The Tacoma Parks Department is putting on a carnival from 5pm to 8pm at Jefferson Park. Their website indicates that there will be carnival games, inflatables, pony rides, entertainment, and hands-on activities but does not indicate if or what cost is involved.

Stewart Heights Pool is having a family night from 5:30pm to 7:30pm. This pool includes a zero depth entry, water slide, bubble pool, lazy river, a water play structure, and tumble buckets. Cost for this event is $5 for adults, $4 for kids, or $12 per family.

Saturday, July 26, 2008
The Ethnic Fest takes place this weekend at Wright Park from 12pm to 7pm. There will be entertainment, crafts, and special kids events.

You get another chance to see Valentines Pits today. They'll be performing at the Moore Library at 11am.

Wright Park on 6th will be the location for Tacoma's first summer concert and movie in the park. Musical entertainment will be provided by Rumba Kings. Freedom Writers will be the movie and will start at dusk. These concerts and movies in the park can really be a lot of fun for the kids. If it is at all chilly, bring some extra layers and blankets to cuddle up in.

Meanwhile, Puyallup will be showing its movie in the park at Bradley Lake. They will be showing Waterhorse, which is a cute movie. Based on last year's experience, I strongly suggest you take along a flashlight and chairs to sit on. The flashlight is for the bathrooms; they didn't have lights and were pitch black once you closed the door. I don't know if they've remedied this problem since last year but it won't hurt to be prepared. The chairs would replace a blanket as geese have been a problem in this park in the past.

Sunday, July 27, 2008
Ethnic Fest continues in Wright Park. See Saturday for details.

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Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Works For Me Wednesday: Morning Sickness Cure



I'm only 6 weeks and 3 days into my pregnancy and the nausea has already kicked in. I haven't started actually vomiting yet (that's next week) but I'm not very functional when the nausea hits me. In fact, I woke up this morning just feeling miserable and, despite all the things I wanted and needed to accomplish, I moved from my bed, straight to my couch. Unfortunately, I know the pattern of my pregnancies as every one of them has been the same; starting next week I'll begin vomiting every 45 minutes or whenever I swallow even a single bite of food, whichever comes first. That will continue until about the 21st-24th week. Following that, I'll just be miserable for the remainder of the pregnancy. Sounds fun, doesn't it?


Fortunately, I know how to stop it all. No, eating more frequently so my blood sugar doesn't drop doesn't help. Neither does lemons, saltines, or sea bands. None of the usual tricks help even a tiny bit. However, my two best buds not only help, but take away every second of nausea I'd ever experience without them. They'll be guests in my house for the next 34 weeks.


Meet B6. B6 is a wonderful water-soluble vitamin that comes in many different foods and various sized tablets. I only need 25 mg, so I snap the 50 mg tablets in half. They are scored so splitting them is super easy. I pour the whole bottle out and split all the tablets at once. 50 mg tablets are hard to find, but that's ok, 100mg tablets work just fine. Any extra B-6 is harmless excreted when you pee.




My other bud is regular strength Unisom. It's found in the sleeping aid section of any store carrying over the counter meds. Only regular strength Unisom (doxylamine succinate) will do; the extra strength is a different medication altogether. Unisom is an sedating antihistamine that is used as a sleeping aid. It is non-habit forming. As only half a tablet is needed for a dose, I also snap the whole box in half in advance, making it easier to take my nightly dose.

When Unisom and B6 are used together they make a wonderful anti-nausea drug that has a 30+ year safety record. Back in the 1980's it was marketed together under the name Bendectin. Another anti nausea drug was also used during that time. The other one caused birth defects; causing both to come under fire. Bendectin was pulled in US markets by the manufacturer even though the FDA never removed its approval of the drug. However, the same medicine continued to be used in Canadian markets under the name Diclectin. Studies and 30 years of use have shown that this combination does not cause birth defects. In actuality, not treating severe vomiting can cause birth defects by preventing the absorption of folic acid due to the prenatal being vomited before it can be absorbed. Now, the FDA has approved the use of the over the counter ingredients, taken together, for the treatment of nausea and vomiting in pregnancy.

I take 1/2 a Unisom tablet and 1/2 B6 each night before bed. By taking it at bedtime, most of the drowsiness is gone by morning and it helps me to sleep. The one dose lasts me more than 24 hours, so I'm never suffering nausea between doses. I remember reading somewhere during my pregnancy with Josh that it is safe to take up to 3 doses a day but I cannot locate that source to verify it. However, I did find this source about the history and safety of the combination.
Of course, I have to put the required disclaimer. I AM NOT A DOCTOR. Check out the information and talk to your doctor before you do anything. However, if you are pregnant and dealing with nausea and vomiting that is affecting your ability to eat and keep down your prenatal vitamins, you really need to do something to keep down the food/vitamins. There are some serious consequences to not getting enough nutrition...for you and the baby.

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Monday, July 14, 2008

Tacoma Kids Weekly: Week of July 14, 2008


I'm late posting this week's activities. I'm sorry. I've been battling a cold and pregnancy symptoms and they are slowing me down. I wonder why. LOL Here's this week's list:

Tuesday, July 15, 2008
The Hot Shot Tap Dancers will be performing for the kids at Pioneer Park in Puyallup. The show begins at noon but I'd advise getting there early to find a spot among the day campers. There's a playground and wading pool at the park also. When we go, we like to pack a picnic so we can stay awhile. My kids like playing at the playground before the concert and hitting the wading pool as soon as they fill it after the concert.

Regal Cinemas continues with the Free Family Film Festival today and tomorrow. You can visit Regal Cinemas' website for a list was what is playing at your local theater. The Lakewood 15 at S. 84th Street will be showing The Pirates Who Don't Do Anything and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. While the show begins at 10am, I advise getting there no later than 9:15am to get in line. Seating is first come, first serve and with day campers arriving by the busload, late arrival may mean you don't get your movie of choice or any movie at all.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008
The Point Defiance Zoo will be bringing their Wild Worker Bugs program to the Tacoma Main Library at 11am as part of the summer reading program. Stop by for the show, report your reading, and get some new books to read. If you haven't signed up for the reading program, there's still time. You have until August 16th to read and report 10 books to qualify for two free zoo tickets (1 for the child and 1 for the parent) for Library Day on August 23rd. The Recess Monkeys will be performing for us that day.

Pt. Defiance Zoo and the Tacoma Nature Center will be putting on another Nature Discovery Night. If you like frogs, learning about frogs, and doing frog activities, this is the event for you. It will take place at Manitou Park from 4:30pm to 6:30pm.


Thursday, July 17, 2008
It's Tacoma Farmer's Market day. The market is located downtown on Broadway between 9th and 1th streets. Park at the Tacoma Dome for free and take the light rail to the market for free. Today's entertainment is the Joshua Cain Band. Don't forget to stop by the Tacoma Children's Museum as it is free during market days.

You can see the Valentine Performing Pigs at the Wheelock Library at 11am. These pigs have appeared on The Late Show with Dave Letterman, Oprah, and The Today Show among others. And we get to see them for free.

If you prefer bugs to pigs, the Wild Worker Bugs program will be at the Moore library at 11am.

You could also chose to see the Clay Martin Puppet Theater at Fernhill Library at 3pm. This will be the only Tacoma Library showing of this particular puppet show by Clay Martin. If you can't catch this show, you'll still have one other chance to see the Clay Marting Puppet Theater at the South Tacoma Library on July 23rd at 3pm but it will be a different show.

Puyallup's Concert in the Park series continues this week at Pioneer Park. Tonight's groups will be Dynamik and Alex Duncan. These concerts are very popular drawing well over a thousand people. Concert starts at 6:30pm and go to 8:30pm. There are a few concessions available in the park or you can bring along a picnic dinner.

Friday, July 18, 2008
It is City of Tacoma Night at Wright Park tonight from 5pm-8pm. The event will feature "green recycling games", the EnviroChallanger, fire engines, and police cars.

The Zambini Brothers will be bringing their puppets to Swasey Library at 3pm. They have the coolest puppets.

You get another chance to take the kids to Wild Worker Bugs today at the Mottet Library at 11am.

The Seafair Indian Days Pow Wow begins today and runs through the weekend. It is held at the Daybreak Star Indian Cultural Center at Discovery Park. It averages 400-600 dancers in full regalia, 25 drum groups, and more than 60 vendors featuring Native Indian arts and crafts. If you have studied or will be studying Native Americans this year, this would be a great event to enhance your studies. Their website does not indicate if there is an admission fee or not but there is a phone number listed that you can call for more information if needed.

Saturday, July 19, 2008
Seafair Indian Days Pow Wow continues. See Friday for details.

Jaydeen Nation's Petting Zoo will be visiting Kobetich Library at 3pm. This little traveling zoo featured about a dozen animals last year. The kids enjoyed petting the animals for about half an hour before we headed inside to report our reading progress and check out some more books.

Puyallup's free movies in the park kicks off today with Shrek 3. The movie is projected onto a giant inflatable movie screen beginning at dusk. Concessions are available for purchase. Based on last year's experience, I recommend bringing a flashlight, camping chairs, and blankets. The flashlight is so you can see in the bathroom after dark; there were no lights in the bathroom last year so it was pitch (and I mean PITCH) black in the bathroms. The chairs are a must because geese are a problem at this park, or they were last year, and their droppings are all over the grass. The blankets are for cuddling up with.

Sunday, July 20, 2008
Seafair Indian Days Pow Wow continues. See Friday for details.

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An Eventful Visit to the Park

Saturday, we decided to take the kids to the park. We chose a park in another city (20-25 minutes away) that I discovered not too long ago but hadn't been to before. It had everything you could want: lots of grass, plenty of shade trees, plenty of picnic tables, barbeques, a cool play structure, a swimming lake complete with a beach, a pier/dock for jumping into the deep swimming section or fishing on the other side, and a concession stand.

We only stayed for about two hours but they were an eventful two hours to say the least. First of all, we ended up meeting and talking with a sweet young single mom spending the day with her young son. We enjoyed talking with her for a good portion of our time there. That was the good part but then the unexpected happened.

I was walking around the huge play structure. I was curious to see all that there was to do and was checking on my kids at the same time. Then I saw him. A young boy, crying, in pain. I headed over to make sure he was ok. And that was when I saw the blood and lots of it. He seemed somewhat disoriented so I bent down and said, "Let's go find your mom." I had no clue where she was but decided that forward momentum in any direction would be a good thing. I was hoping that if I got him started, he would head for his mom. It ended up that I started in the right direction and his mom saw us immediately. I explained that he got hurt and turned him over to her. As she placed a towel on his head, I headed over to my blanket, about 20 feet away, to grab my baby wipes. I wadded up baby wipe and handed it to mom to use to apply pressure more directly to his head wound than the large towel could. Meanwhile, I worked on cleaning up the blood that had run all down his face, head, neck, chest, and back. I wanted to clean him up for two reasons; to prevent panic on both his part and others and to help determine where, if any, other wounds were. There were just too much blood to tell. I got him cleaned up enough to see no immediate issues other than the back of his head and nose so I switched to helping him pinch his nose as he was having trouble doing. It didn't take long to get the head wound clotted; it didn't appear serious and wouldn't need stitches. So, we focused on getting his nose to stop bleeding. It turns out that the lady we had met earlier a nursing student. She came to help out and checked his head wound. She also provided the new wisdom on stopping a bleeding nose; to pinch and hold your head forward rather than backward. (I didn't know that as I have never gotten a blood nose in my life.) His nose finally quit bleeing so I went back to helping to clean him up the rest of the way while his mom held him. Just as I was working on cleaning up his lips to check his lips and mouth, he sneezed about 5 times which cleared out his nose but started it bleeding again so back to that. Finally, we got everything stopped. The nursing student gave the suggestion to keep on eye on him for signs of concussion and we all went back to enjoying our day. Later, the boy would be seen playing like nothing had happened.

Then, a while later as we sat on our blanket with Josh watching Mika and Sammy play, a little girl who appeared to be around 4 years old came up to me and asked me if I knew where her mom was. She seemed lost so I immediately went to work asking her where she was sitting. She didn't know. So, I started questioning her. Is your mom sitting at a picnic table? What is she wearing? What color is her shirt? What color is her pants? Are you here for a party? What kind of party? I took her by the hand and, together, we set out to find her mommy. After making our way around completely around the play area, I headed back towards my blanket intent on visiting the larger parties a bit further from the playground. It was then that she mummbled something about a baby party and I saw some baby presents very close to where I had been sitting so we headed back there. As we got to the party area, the grandmother addressed the girl so I knew we had found her place. The grandmother told the girl to not wander off again so I explained to her that she seemed lost because she asked where her mom was. It turned out that grandmother was in charge and mom wasn't even at the park yet.

Around this time, my son wanted to visit the beach and go play in the water so we picked up and moved. We got the beach, laid our blanket down, and I started to switch Josh's diaper to a swim diaper. Just after doing that, the lifeguards ordered everyone out of the water. Confused, everyone got out and watched as the lifeguards, arm in arm, started sweeping the water looking for a lost child assumed to have disappeared in the water. It was quite shocking to think that a child may have drowned while we were there. A couple of minutes later, a police officer came up and told the lifeguards that the child had been found. What a relief!

At that time, we decided it was time to go. We'd come back to swim another day. Besides I had a car to pick up from the shop.

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Sunday, July 13, 2008

Homeschool Swap

Homeschool Blog Awards hosts a fun swap every other month. This was the second time I participated. It's fun to "meet" another homeschooler and blogger and get to know them through email and their blogs. Because of the swap, I've met two other homeschoolers/bloggers that I would have never known before. Now, I follow their blogs and their family's adventures. What fun!

This last swap, I was paired with NerdMom. One of the interesting things I learned about her was that she is using the same curriculum I just chose for our history and literature studies, only she's a year ahead of me. She also turned me on to a history book written for adults; something I desperately need due to my lack of history knowledge.

Anyway, here's what she sent me: a lovely, dark wood serving tray that holds four 4x6 photos and a pretty metal bookmark with little hummingbird on it.

There's always room for more swappers. The more the merrier, as they say. I'd love to get to know you someday through a swap. If you want to participate, visit Homeschool Blog Awards and sign up by July 19th.

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Friday, July 11, 2008

So Totally Off Topic

It must be a growth spurt. It just has to be. I'm shocked and amazed at how much food my little guy, Josh, is just packing away today. I mean really!

First of all, he's nursed about 3-4 times today. He usually will nurse for anywhere from 15 - 45 minutes. Then had probably 1/2 cup of cheerios (with milk) for breakfast. Then he ate an entire full-sized breakfast burrito filled with scrambled eggs, fried potatoes, cheddar cheese, cut up leftover hamburger patty, and sour cream. He ate the whole thing! He was asleep during our late lunch but he made up for it. He just finished packing away 2 slices of cheese pizza minus the crusts. That just seems like a lot of food for a 16 month old toddler...and its more than my 8 year old ate today. Oh, and now he's begging his sister for some of the yogurt she's eating.

He's also managed to slurp down about 20oz of Tang and another 10oz of water, as well. He's always drinking something. He drinks so much that I actually asked the pediatrician about it at his last appointment.

What am I going to do when he gets older? Take out a second mortgage just to feed him?

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Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Agreeing with Nature

Mika wrote this song/poem this evening all on her own. It wasn't an assignment. You can tell she likes writing because she's often working on writing a story of some kind or another. Now, she's branched into poetry. I'm looking forward to studying poetry with her this year for the first time.
Agreeing with Nature
By Mika

Green as the glaze that grows in the forest,
Red as the lava that pours down below us.
Grey as the mountain that lava comes out from,
Can’t you just see that we all can agree?

All can agree with the Nature,
We all can agree with the sand.
Anything you can’t agree on,
You’re not part of Nature’s hand.

Orange as an orange that you take a bite of,
Blue of the sea you can see.
White as the dove that you can whistle all to,
Can’t you just see that we all can agree?

All can agree with the Nature,
We all can agree with the land.
Anything you can’t agree on,
You’re not part of Nature’s hand.

Take care of Nature,
Take care of the Earth!
Anything you can’t take care of,
You’ll not be in Nature’s hand.

Take care of Nature!
Take care of the Earth!
Anything you can’t take care of,
You’re not in Nature’s hand!

Take care of Nature!
Take care of the Earth!
All things you can take care of,
You are in Nature’s hand!
You are in Nature’s hand,
You are in Nature’s hand.

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Car Troubles

I little over a year ago, I owned a Saturn SL2. I liked driving it but this tiny car just wasn't cutting it with three kids in car seats. The kids couldn't buckle themselves in without help and it hurt squeezing my arm between the seats to reach the buckle. Then I had to shove the seats, with the kids them, into the center of the car as hard as I could before slamming the car door closed. The kids were squished, with no wiggle room, and miserable. Something had to change!

So, we researched vans and decided on a newer model Chrysler Town and Country or Dodge Carvan. Both cars are made on the same frame, with the same engine, and come with stow and go seating. It was the stow and go seating that sold me. It is so easy to fold up the seats into their wells, making extra room for cargo as needed. It's almost as easy as the commercials showed. With the kids, I usually just fold down 60% side of the back bench; in fact, it's almost always down. Once, I folded down one of the middle seats and we used the space for an in-car picnic on a rainy day field trip. If we need to haul something larger, we can remove the car seats and fold both middle seats (captains chairs) and the back bench, giving us the entire van for cargo. What's really nice about this set up it that the seats fold down completely flat as if it was just a floorboard in there and nothing else. It's really a nice feature.

However, I was worried about the mechanical reliablity and durability when purchasing either of these cars, as they are both American-made cars. My dad fixed all of our cars when I was young and I grew up "knowing" American-made cars were not only broke down often, but were a nightmare to work on. Unfortunately, with the exception of Saturn, my experience has confirmed my childhood experiences. For a very short time I owned a Fix Or Repair Daily before we finally gave up on it, as repairing it was costing more than buying it had. My Dodge Caravan is trying to confirm this belief as well.

We bought my Dodge Caravan last May, just over 13 months ago. It was a 2006 rental car with 21,000 miles on it. The car appeared immaculate and it came with a built in DVD player (my children got lucky). Best of all, as a certified used car, it came with a 7 year, 70,000 mile warranty.

The warranty has been a bad move for the dealer. Almost immediately, the weather stripping around both front doors started falling off. They fixed it. Then the steering system failed and they had to repair it. It was an expensive repair--over $1200. Now the car has sprung an oil leak. Guess who's footing that bill when it get repaired on Saturday.

What's funny is that I was able to negotiate the sales price when I bought the car to below blue book. We were shopping at the end of the day, at the end of the month, with two dealers battling for our business. We had our own financing in place which provided a better rate than the dealer could offer. The dealer's tricks had no effect on us. And, because I didn't NEED the car, we were willing to walk out without it. The meant my price turned out to be $3,000 under blue book. So, not only did they lose at the sale but they are now losing on the warranty as they've put another $1500 or so into repairs.

Unless our family outgrows it before then, I think we'll probably keep the car until the warranty runs out but not after.

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Technology-driven Family

To say that we are a technology family may be an understatement. My husband and I met online back in 1996 before it was popular to meet people online. We got married the next year and have never been without a computer or two or five since. It helps that my husband works in the industry and can get parts, or even whole computers, relatively inexpensively (or even free). It has worked out that we all, essentially, have our own computers. Well, except Josh, that is: he doesn't have computer rights just yet.

In addition to everyone using the computer, we all have our own Internet identities. Even my 8 and 6 year olds publish their own blogs, maintain their own email addresses, and participate in Internet social communities, in addition to playing games online. It's no surprise then, that technology invades the non-technological part of our lives as well. Or is it?

It always cracks me up when I hear the kids playing some from of imaginative play with their toys and I hear them say, "Pause the game." There they are playing with plastic horses or Polly Pocket or Barbie and one of them has to go to the bathroom, so they "pause the game." The other funny thing that they do is "save the game." That's what they did last night when it was time to clean up; they carefully moved their horses and stable out of the way (rather than putting them completely away) because they were saving the game for today. I wonder when they'll be logging into their imaginative play with a password. Or maybe their Polly Pocket adventure will blue screen and have a fatal error. Perhaps their stuffed animals will become infected with a virus or spyware some day and need to be reinstalled.

Yeah, I think technological jargon has infiltrated my children's brains and taken over.

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Monday, July 7, 2008

Exploring Owens Beach

Last Wednesday, we met up with some other homeschoolers at Owens Beach. The tide was very low, which provided plenty of opportunities for sea creatures, of which we found many.

Our first major find was this 10-armed sea star. The kids got a kick out of watching it because it was waving its arms around. They have never seen a sea star actually moving. They knew they moved but thought they went about it extremely slowly and this little fellow was not all that slow.



Then we ran across this sea star. A couple of interesting things we noted about it was that it was covered with translucent white bristles topped with little ball tips and he was missing part of an arm. They remembered that they can regrow their arms so we weren't too worried about him.




This guy was probably the highlight of the day. We saw this small octopus washed ashore. I think it was an Octopus rubescens as they are common in this area. Another thing I learned in my search for information is that they have a painful venomous bite.



Here's Mika and Sammy checking out a third kind of sea star. This one was just off shore in the water.
Here's a close up of the sea star the kids were observing in the above photo. It was a nice bright red color and only had five arms. It didn't seem to mind the little waves at all.



Here's Mika with a couple of the other homeschoolers (their faces are blacked out for privacy since I didn't get permission to post their photos). As you can see, we were turning over rocks to see what we might find. You can't see it in the photo, but but the boy who's bent over has a tiny sea star in his hand.
If you look closely, you'll see a small eel-like creature in the water. We saw dozens and dozens of these. They seemed to be under every rock and in every pool of water. I think they are High Cockscombs, a type of fish.
We saw two species of crabs in various sizes from dozens of just hatched ones to this larger one. He was about 4 inches across so we steered clear of his pincers. He was pretty cool to look at though.
We walked a ways down the beach exploring as we went. At one point Josh has fallen asleep in my arms as I walked. It wasn't long after that we found an area populated by geoducks ("gooey ducks"). Well, my first indication that they were in the area was when I stepped on the sand in which one was buried and found myself shocked at the sudden gush of saltwater up my dress. After that, we started seeing these geoducks spitting every where. It was not a safe place for keeping dry!

We headed back to our starting place and let the kids have some time to just play around. After a total of two and a half hours on the beach, we headed home for lunch.

On the way home, we took the scenic five mile drive through Pt. Defiance Park. There are several overlook areas. I caught this nice photo of the Narrows Bridge at one of them.

The kids and I enjoyed our time exploring Owens Beach. We saw more than I expected and enjoyed meeting some homeschoolers that we hadn't previously met. Ironically, after not visiting Owens Beach in several years, we ended up back at Owens Beach four days later with another group for a picnic. I think we won't stay away for so long next time.



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Sunday, July 6, 2008

Tacoma Kids Weekly - Week of July 7, 2008


Is the weekend over already? I guess I should get moving on this post since it is my goal to post it each weekend and the weekend will soon be is over. I hope you enjoyed the weekend as much as we did. Friday, the 4th, my guys went to Tall Ships for a little while and then saw The Hulk movie. They said it was full of action, somewhat scary (especially for my 6 year old), and totally awesome. Saturday it was the girls' turn. Mika and I spent the day at the Celebrate the Horse Festival. Today, we were up early for church and then visited Owens Beach (post coming soon) with some friends for several hours. It's been a long, fun weekend. The coming week has one must do event for us Thursday evening, The Coats concert in the park. We can't wait.

Monday, July 7, 2008
The Puyallup wading pools open for the season today. There are two of them, both located on Meridian in downtown Puyallup. Our favorite is Pioneer Park. The wading pool is a shallow circle suitable for even young toddlers to play in (with supervision of course). Nearby is a nice playground, also located inside a circle, oddly enough. The park also has a nice grassy area for playing and picnicking and clean restrooms. The other park, Grayland Park, is located a few blocks north of Pioneer Park. The rectangular wading pool is somewhat larger but located just a dozen or so feet from the parking lot so watch the young ones closely. The park also has playground equipment and swings, a small grassy area, and bathrooms Whichever park you chose, you'll find a good place to cool off on hot days. Times vary depending on the day and park. Check out their pdf filer for times.

Today is the last day to check out the Tall Ships before they head out of town.


Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Puyallup's noon time children's concert takes place in Pioneer Park at noon. The Rock A Roos will be providing musical entertainment. While I don't know anything about the Rock A Roos (nor can I finding anything about them online), I can tell you that this children's series can be a lot of fun for the kids. We like to take a picnic lunch with us and arrive early. The day campers show up for the concerts so there are plenty of kids to play with. In fact, there are so many kids, I recommend closer supervision of your children for safety reasons (the playground equipment is often over capacity). After the concert, the wading pool opens. If the weather is nice, we usually stay a few hours to enjoy everything.

Regal Cinemas has two more free kids' movies today. Every participating theater shows the same movies (in general) but on different weeks so you'll need to check their website for what's playing at your theater. Here in Tacoma, the closest is Lakewood 15 on S. 84th which is showing Jonah: A Veggie Tales Movie and The Bee Movie this week. Movies start at 10am and are first come first serve so arrive early.

Wednesday, July 9, 2008
If you have a frog lover in the family, head over to Franklin Park at 4:30 for a Nature Discovery Night. Pt. Defiance Zoo staff, together with The Nature Center staff, will be hosting an event with frogs, education about frogs, and frog activities. While there, you can enjoy the playground equipment and/or wading pool. The pool is open from 1-4pm and again from 4:30-6:50pm so if the weather is nice, you could make a day of it by bring a picnic dinner and swimsuits. Tacoma wading pools run from about one foot deep along the sides to about 3-4 feet deep in the center so you'll want to watch your non-swimmers closely.

Thursday, July 10, 2008
It's market day in downtown Tacoma. Visit the Tacoma Farmers Market between 9am and 2pm to pick up fresh flowers and produce, enjoy musical entertainment by Matt Sircely, and visit the Tacoma Children's Museum for free. Park at the Tacoma Dome Station for free and take a free ride on the light rail over to the market for easy access.

This week's must do event is The Coats concert at Pioneer Park. The concert starts at 6:30pm with Miss Washington Elyse Umemoto followed by the oh-so-fun a Capella group, The Coats. The Coats are good at what they do and so much fun to watch live. You can visit their website to listen to clips of their music but it just doesn't do the concerts any justice. Besides sing, they banter with each other and the audience. Audience participation is guaranteed at some point of the show. Unless you are a complete scrooge (yes, I know one), you'll find clean family fun suitable for all ages that will keep you smiling and laughing for the whole show. This concert draws well over a thousand people so arrive early to get a good spot on the grass.

The Kent Cornucopia Days begins today and runs through the 13th. This large festival features a street fair with over 600 vendors, children's activities, a carnival, dragon boat races, and much more. This sounds like it would be worth the short drive north sometime this weekend. Just save today for the Coats concert.

Friday, July 11, 2008
The Puyallup Public Library is having a "Buggy about Books" event at 3pm with Mad Science of Pierce County. This looks like it could be a lot of fun, especially for those kids who love science.

The Kent Cornucopia Days continues today. See Thursday for details.

Saturday, July 12, 2008
The weather forecast is for warm, sunny weather which is just perfect for catching a free movie in the park. The Bee Movie will be showing at Skansie Brothers Park at 9pm. Bring blankets and/or lawn chairs and enjoy the show. Having been to several movies in the park over the years, the blankets are a must as it can sometimes get chilly after the sun sets. Despite the sometimes cool weather, watching a movie in the park can be a lot of fun. The kids love the novelty of it all. We like coming early with a picnic dinner. We eat, play, and enjoy the show.

The Kent Cornucopia Days continues. See Thursday for details.

Sunday, July 13, 2008
Art on the Ave takes place today from 11am to 6pm on 6th Ave. between Cedar and Trafton Streets. This festival features live music, art vendors, and children's activities.

The Kent Cornucopia Days continues. See Thursday for details.

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Saturday, July 5, 2008

Fun with Horses

I'm beat. Wiped out. Exhausted.

Mika and I spent 6 1/2 hours at the Celebrate the Horse festival at the Puyallup Fairgrounds today. Having a horse lover in the family, and one that can't own a horse because of where we live, meant we just HAD to go. Mika was in heaven.



When we were parking, we caught a glimpse of The Mystery Machine. We just had to walk over to it and grab a photo of it to share with you all and show Sammy, who likes Scooby Do. You can't see if in the photo, but the license plate says, "Ruh oh". Too cute!


After paying admission, we headed directly to the pony rides. Nothing would be right in the world until Mika got her pony ride. She shied away from the horse they had and went for the pony. It was one tiny pony too. But she loved it.


We hit the balloon animal booth next and got a white unicorn with a golden horn. Unfortunately, it later popped but they made her a new one. The new unicorn was light blue with a golden horn. They made me a cute, little, pink ladybug balloon bracelet. Next to that was the face painting. As you can see, Mika is sporting a beautiful, glittery butterfly. If they'd had a horse, there'd be a horse on her cheek but they didn't.


We stopped by the stick horse booth where we made stick horses out of pool noodles and foamies. They had is partially assembled for safety (hot glue was used) and let the kids decorate their horses. Later, Mika and her mustang mare came in second in the stick horse races. I made a gorgeous stallion for Sammy to ride at home.

We watched a couple of demonstrations in the arena and zig-zagged our way through the stables until we found the friesians. This is Mika with our second favorite horse, Gabby. She's a beautiful friesian mare from Yakima.

We got some food, watched some more demonstrations, and headed back for another pony ride. This time Mika, with increased courage, took a ride on the horse. Mika loves horses and loves a great hand-led pony ride.

And this is Durk. He's our favorite horse. He belongs to the same people who owns Gabby. He's also a friesian and is just gorgeous. He was so very loving and social and craving attention (which he got plenty of), that you couldn't help but fall in love with him. He nuzzles, kisses, and grooms his human friends. If you scratch him just right, he cocks his head to the side and wiggles his lips around just maked him look like a big goofball. Did I tell you that you couldn't help falling in love with him? Altogether, we probably spent about an hour visiting Durk and Gabby, which leads to the end of our story...

Knowing it was pretty much time to go home, Mika sat down at a nearby bench and started crying. She didn't want to leave the horses. She was afraid she'd never see them again, especially Durk. I called home and asked if my husband minded us staying later than expected so we could watch the last friesian demonstration. He was fine with that and suggested we bring home dinner since we'd be getting home too late to cook. That only helped Mika feel a tiny bit better. She was still worried about leaving the horses and not seeing them again. It was not very likely with him living several hours away. His owner came over and saw Mika crying and told us how we could go about finding local events they might come to. She also suggested we go talk to that lady in pink down there at the end of the stable. Maybe we could help set out the cones for the demonstration. So, we headed over to talk to the lady in pink.

We ended up talking to the wrong lady in pink but that ended up being a blessing as you'll soon understand. She pointed us to the correct lady in pink and, yes, we could help set out the cones when it was time. We still had about 45 minutes until the demonstration so we hung around the stable, visiting the horses, and talking with the first lady in pink. The conversation (abbreviated) went something like this:

"Thanks for helping me find the right person to talk to. My daughter loves horses and fell in love with those friesians over there and was crying about having to leave them," I said.

"Your welcome. Do you live around here?" she asked.

"We live in Tacoma."

"You know, I'm about 45 minutes from here and have an old, gentle friesian and quarter horse. You're welcome to come over to visit and play with them," she suggested.

"Really! But we have no experience with horses. My daughter knows a lot of the terminology from playing horse games online but we don't know anything about caring for and riding horses."

"That's fine. My friesian is very gentle. I've put children on her before," she reassured, "Here let me give you my name and number. I can give you my address and you can mapquest it and see where it is."

"Wow! That's great! She'll love that! She could work, too, help you with whatever you need that you could show her how to do...cleaning the stable, grooming, whatever," I suggested.

"That'd be fine."

"She really loves horses. She'll be thrilled. You know, though, I think she might grow up to be a children's writer writing stories with horses and young girls in them," I shared.

With a surprised chuckle she replied, "I'm a children's writer. I'll be publishing a story soon about a barn cat for preschoolers."

"Really! That's amazing. I was just thinking recently about asking around to see if I could find a children's author to mentor my daughter in her writing because I just don't have the skills for that," I say, shocked at the coincidences.

"Here, let me give you my email address, too," she replied.

Now, isn't that awesome?

I also found out that the organization putting on the festival does horse rescue and is one of the only places around that allow children to volunteer. The only problem is that they are over an hour away from us. However, after talking to another mom with an 8 year old volunteer, I was thinking of driving up there anyway. Her daughter started out clearing rocks from the pasture, moved on to grooming the horses, and is now taking riding lessons with them. She suggested I could drive up to her house and we could carpool the rest of the way.

Plus, I talked to another lady who knows a homeschool family about 40 minutes from us who owns horses and teaches kids to ride. She thought her friend might be willing to work with our school to provide lessons. If she was willing to work with our virtual academy, that would mean the school would pay for the riding lessons as long as I had it written into Mika's learning plan and had student funds left.

So, I go to a horse festival so my daughter would have the chance to see horses for just one day and come back with three possibilities for her to have regular contact with horses and perhaps learn how to care and ride them. Can it get any better than that for a horse-loving, 8 year old, city-dweller? Besides us announcing that we are selling the house and moving to a ranch, that is.

While God is always good, He was especially good to my little girl today. I've been wishing I could find a way to get her around some horses and He provided some opportunities for us today.

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Friday, July 4, 2008

Celebrate the Horse

I missed this event on my Tacoma Kids Weekly post last week because I thought it was next weekend. Well, it's not. It's tomorrow and Sunday, July 5th and 6th. If you have a horse lover in your family, it sounds like a great event. Here's their websites description:

Celebrate the Horse is the Pacific Northwest’s only horse festival to focus on
entertaining and educating the general public. It’s the mission of Celebrate the
Horse to help people learn about the wonderful world of horses, its breeds, its
disciplines and its sports in an atmosphere of celebration and
education.


This year’s event is on July 5th and 6th--- a great way to kick
off summer for the entire family. And all net proceeds benefit People Helping
Horses, a nonprofit focused on rescue, rehabilitation and public
education.


Celebrate the Horse is not an industry trade show--- it’s better
yet--- and you’ll find the best in the horse business ready and available to
help you learn, and answer your questions.



See you there!

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Thursday, July 3, 2008

Rescheduling

Now that I've explained our involvement in CVA, this post will make a lot more sense.

With our new and exciting news, I need to schedule and plan this coming school year differently. I expect to need time off in March with the new baby arriving. I'd prefer to take the whole month off. However, because I've chose to report to CVA, I do not have the ability to simply not do school. However, CVA is so great about its flexiblity, I do have a workable option in the form of banking hours.

We can start school as early as August 1st in order to begin banking hours. So, I'm replanning school to begin August 4th, the first Monday of August. We'll start our history and science then and gradually ramp up with our other subjects as they arrive. (I still have to order them.) We'll also take two weeks off in December instead of the allotted four. The rest of our needed bank hours will come from any overages each week leading up to the baby's birth. This will enable me to focus on recovering from birth and getting to know the baby without having to worry about getting school done or getting behind.

Wish us luck!

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CVA - Banking Hours

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CVA no longer requires that you keep track of school hours, with the exception of high schoolers seeking a Washington State diploma.  Instead, they assume you are meeting the required hours if your student is making progress as determined by weekly contacts, monthly reviews, and annual testing.

I mentioned in my last post about Columbia Virtual Academy that we are required to do school a certain number of hours each week. So, what do you do if you're sick or you know you will need unscheduled time off during the school year? Well, you bank hours.

Banking hours is CVA's way of allowing enrolled families have control over their time while still meeting the state mandated requirements for how much school alternative education students must complete. Basically, you do extra school now so you can take time off later.

There are two ways you can bank hours. One way is to do a little bit of extra time each day. Over time, this can add up to enough hours to take a day or more off. You could plan on doing an extra 30 minutes a day. Assuming you do this five days a week, after four weeks, you'd have enough banked hours to take a week off. Another way is to do school during scheduled vacation, holidays, and weekends so you can schedule your time off when you want it rather than according to the school's schedule. There are several time periods you can chose from including August, December, and spring break in April. Regardless of how you bank hours, it is a good idea to try to bank at least some time.

To some homeschoolers, doing 10, 20, or 25 hours of school each week might seem like an awful lot of time to "do school" and now I'm suggesting that you do even more. Relax! It is easy for most homeschoolers to accomplish this because CVA makes counting hours flexible and easy. Depending on how you've written your learning plan, you may be able to count independent reading, personal writing, educational games, watching educational TV shows/videos, outings, chores, helping mom cook, and playing outside towards your hourly requirement. Both the state law and CVA realize that there is educational value in activities beyond seatwork and direct instruction, thus you are allowed to count these other activities provided they are in your learning plan. When you take a broader perspective on what is "school", finding these hours is considerably easier.

Your next concern might be how to keep track of all these hours. Again, you can relax. CVA does not require you to have a log of what you did during each minute of your school day. My advise would be to keep it as simple as possible. If you keep an eye on the clock, you'll know about how much time you've spent on language arts, math, history, science, reading, PE, etc. and can write down your daily total. As you get used to watching the clock, you'll come to know how long you usually spend and will only need to keep an eye on days that don't follow your normal pattern. Even a disorganized, relaxed homeschooler like myself can get a sense of how long each subject normally takes to complete and keep a basic log of daily hours.

Reporting hours, banked hours, and used bank hours is easy. Each month, you simply answer the question, "Do you meet the required number of hours for the past month?" If you've banked hours, you can chose "yes" and provide a note of how many hours you're banking. If you've used banked hours, you can chose "no" and provide a note of home many banked hours you used. CVA makes reporting easy.

While I was initially worried about CVA telling me how much and when to do school, I found it to be a benefit in practice. Up to this past year, I was regularly in the habit of skipping school. This led to feeling like I was failing at homeschooling because I knew how much we didn't do school. Occasionally, my husband would step in and suggest we get back on schedule. With the requirements in place, I may still take time off or skip a day but the requirement keeps me from getting too far behind. Another benefit I found of the required hours is that we actually completed all of our curriculum in a single year, which means I won't be starting next year feeling behind and needing to catch up. I can't tell you how good that feels.

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Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Columbia Virtual Academy

***Note***
Due to changes in the law and funding, CVA is no longer the flexible schooling option it used to be.  Gone is the student fund.  Gone is the curriculum flexibility.  They offer a limited selection of curricula options, and if what you want isn't listed, you must pay for it yourself.  Field trips, I am told, aren't plentiful.  It feels more and more like a brick and mortar school-at-home, which is just want I believe the legislature wants.  We left CVA before this school year began when we saw that most of our curricula choices weren't available and most of the ones available would not meet our needs. I no longer recommend CVA as a schooling option.

***Note***


While much of the information in this post is still accurate, CVA has made some changes for the 2010-2011 school year due to concerns at the legislative level.  One of these changes is the student fund.  The student fund is no longer a set amount spend by the parent.  Funds are managed by your CVA teacher with the goal of meeting the student's educational needs.  They still cover much of the same items (mileage is no longer covered), and they are still shooting for the $1200 fund per student, but they realize some students may use more or less money than that depending on their needs.  You need to work together with your CVA teacher to make these decisions based on your student's learning plan.  This change isn't necessarily a bad thing; time will tell.

We are homeschoolers. Unless, that is, you ask the lawmakers and some homeschoolers. Last year we heard about, investigated, and joined a fairly new virtual academy in our state. With that enrollment, we officially became public-schoolers per state law. However, we enrolled at 99% to maintain our legal status as homeschoolers as well. It saves my children from the requirement of taking the WASL, our state's assessment test, while giving us almost all of the advantages of being full time in the virtual academy. So, why would a die-hard homeschooler join a virtual public school program?

Columbia Virtual Academy (CVA) is a program designed for and by homeschoolers. The school was designed in such a way to give the homeschooling families who enroll maximum flexibility while still conforming to the laws regarding alternate public education. Once enrolled and working with the staff, one gets the impression that the program and the staff really are serving to meet the needs of homeschoolers and not just a way for the school district to rope the homeschoolers back into the system as some would believe. You can tell that homeschoolers created the program.

There are many benefits and only a few, easy to meet, requirements for those choosing to enroll. The most significant benefit, and the reason most people chose to enroll, is the student fund. The school provides each enrolled student a certain amount of money to spend on the education of that student. The amount varies depending on state funding/budget and the percentage the student enrolls at. Currently, it is set at a maximum of $1200 per full-time enrolled student. The student fund can be accessed by the parent to purchase approved curriculum, school supplies, classes in the community, and to reimburse for field trips related to your learning plan for the year. How you chose to spend it is up to you.

Another benefit of enrollment is that it can help some meet the homeschool qualification requirements in our state. To homeschool in Washington, the parent must either have a certain number of college credits, take a homeschool qualifying course (runs about $120 and 14 hours), be under the supervision of a certified teacher, or be deemed qualified by the school superintendent. Being enrolled in CVA does two things: the student is a public-schooler under state law thus these requirements don't apply. However, if the parent choose to retain homeschool status by enrolling part time, CVA meets the certified teacher option. Because I do not have enough college credit, enrolling in CVA "qualified" me to homeschool my children without having to sit through 14 hours of class material I already knew from homeschooling for the prior three years. (You don't need to declare your intent to homeschool until your child turns 8 which means you also don't have to "qualify" to homeschool until then either.)

A third benefit of enrollment is having the support of the staff and trained teachers at your disposal. If you have any questions or need any guidance on how to deal with an issue that comes up, help is just an email or phone call away. If your child is struggling to learn to read, your teacher-contact may be able to offer up some ideas to help him. Not sure if your child is working at grade level? They can help you assess your child's work. Need ideas for supplementing your gifted student, They can give you some. Having this support can ease the doubts that often come hand in hand with homeschooling.

Even the requirements for being enrolled, turned into a benefit for me. There are certain reporting requirements for enrollment. The first one is that you must write and submit a student learning plan at the beginning of the year (or upon enrollment, if mid-year) for approval. Prior to CVA, I never had a written plan for our homeschool. Writing the student learning plan, gave me goals and focus for the year. Another requirement is that the students need to make weekly contact with their CVA teacher via email or a quick phone call. My children enjoyed their weekly contacts and having them kept me motivated to do school each week and not shrug it off as I often did prior to CVA. After all, the kids needed to have something to report each week. Additionally, I was required to write a monthly progress report briefly stating what was accomplished in each "course" listed in our learning plan. The requirement, again, motivated me to get our school work done. The monthly reports also serve as a nice record of our school year, a state requirement for all homeschoolers. Finally, I am required to do school a certain number of hours each week. The number of hours required depends on the students grade level (between 10 and 25) and the percentage enrolled. However, the meeting of those hours is very flexible and the reporting consists of a simple yes/no question at the beginning of each month. While these requirements might scare off some homeschoolers, I found each of them to be a blessing to our homeschool. They gave me accountability that I desperately needed. Because of the requirements, we accomplished much more than we would have otherwise and helped give me confidence in the job I was doing as my children's teacher.

Based on our experience with CVA last year, I re-enrolled my children for the coming school year and plan on using CVA throughout our homeschooling years, provided they continue to be as supportive and flexible for homeschoolers.

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